I was talking about his getting a girlfriend, not getting laid.
I guess if you want to do that, you must think like a wolf...it’s no coincidence that they used to call guys that. You will have to look for the girls who are vulnerable, for whatever reason....on the rebound, maybe, lacking confidence.
I would advise going to the bar late...sober, yourself, mind...look for a girl whose friends have already hooked up and ask her to dance. I still say being polite and nonaggressive will help. Try to separate her from the herd...once she has established a little trust in you, which will be quickly if you are sober and polite...offer to take her home, invite her to your place....I don’t know, you are probably the expert on this.
I think the problem I see is that you are not going to get to have lots of excellent sex with good looking women who are faithful to you without putting any effort or thought into it.
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