Create a healthy you, so you can have the healthy relationship you are dreaming of having.
Just like women want men to give them empathic listening not advice and compliments about their looks, dress or nurturing abilities, men want and need responses from their women that support their masculinity.
If we as women are going to support a man's masculinity, we must understand what it is.
Even if men are not aware of the characteristics that follow, they are important qualities for women to support.
Appearance of weak, emotional or sexually incompetent is a major threat to a man's self-esteem.
Develop "accepting communication skills" that validate your man's strengths and skills and his need to do manly activities like fishing, camping, playing sports, and doing things that have an element of danger in them. Men need to do these activities, because it validates their manliness, which enhances their self-esteem.
Imagine for a moment, as a woman, that you could no longer talk with your female friends for hours, or go shopping, because the man in your life rejected these behaviors. This would no doubt create problems for you in your love relationship.The same is true for men when their masculine interests are not supported.
Standards of masculinity in most cultures can create stress for men, because they are expected to be independent, in control, not vulnerable, and to prevail in situations that require physical and mental expertise. This is a great deal of pressure for men and it does result in stress for them, because none of these expectations can be met by a man all of the time.
As a woman, the more you validate your man's masculinity, the less stress he will feel. This is a very important skill to learn and to use as much as possible. It is also important to accept a man when he is vulnerable. A lot of women have trouble with this.
To inspire a man to do almost anything for you, will require that you know how to create a safe relationship for him to be a man. If this is difficult for you, please let me help you learn to be accepting and validating of your man or of the man you are looking for.
When you love yourself 100%, you can focus on what you are giving to your partner, instead of always feeling cheated or ignored, and therefore focusing on what you are not getting.
Start now to create a healthy you, so you can have the healthy relationship you are dreaming of having.
We will be on the creating a new path together, so you have constant, inspiring, and compassionate support along the way.
I look forward in supporting you on your path to inner and outer peace with grace, ease and joy, and with my pleasure I will be there standing for you!
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